How to be charming 如何变得魅力四射

How to be charming 如何变得魅力四射

  为什么有的人招人喜欢,人见人爱?为什么有的人不管走到哪里都可以广交朋友?本集《随身英语》教你如何与人建立融洽的关系及社交礼仪中友谊的“黄金法则”。   课文内容  Vocabulary:socialetiquette词汇:社交礼仪  Lifeisn’,theonewhocanstrikeupaconver  Well,itmightseemlikeamagicalpower,,canyoulearntodevelopsuperhumancharmTheansweris:toalargeextent,yesyoucan.  Butfirst,,peoplemakesnapjudgementsabouteachother’slikeability,trustworthinessandconfidence,accordingtoAlexanderTodorov,professorofpsychologyatPrincetonUniversity.  HowtocounteractthisThere’soneincrediblysimpletool:“moretrustworthy,warmerandsociable”.Itsoundslikecommonsense,doesn’titSmileandotherswillsmilewithyou.  Whatothertricksmightwehaveupoursleev:“Ourbrainsarealwayssurveyingtheenvironmentforfriendorfoesignals.”Threethingswecandotosignalthatwearenotathreatareto:raiseoureyebrowsquickly,tiltourheadsslightly,and,onceagain,tosmile.  Sowe’velookedatbodylanguage,butofcoursewhatyousayishugelyimportanttoo,“thegoldenruleoffriendshipisifyoumakepeoplefeelgoodaboutthemselves,they’regoingtolikeyou.”Inotherwords,youneedtoshowinterestinthem,’rechatting,rememberthis:anotherwayofshowinginterestistomirrortheirphysicalposition.  ,aprofessorofmanagementwithSeattleUniversity,saysthatcharmingpeopleareparticularlyadep’,youcanfallbackonthatmostBritishoftopics:,isn’tit  词汇表  blessed命好的,幸运的  effortlessly不费吹灰之力地  strikeupaconversation(与人)攀谈  completestranger彻头彻尾的陌生人  lead线索,头绪  superhuman超乎常人的  toalargeextent在很大程度上  snapjudgement快速、草率的判断  likeability喜欢程度  trustworthiness可信度  counteract对抗  sociable合群的,好交际的  havesomethingupyoursleeve“留一手”,暗藏某物以备不时之需  foe敌人  tilt(使)倾斜  grin咧嘴笑  goldenrule黄金法则,重要的原则  mirror效仿  commonground共同点  rapport融洽的关系  fallbackon借助于  测验与练习  1.阅读课文并回答问题。         ‘stupidly’  :Ourappearanceinfluenceswhatothersthinkofus.  2.请你在不参考课文的情况下完成下列练习。

选择一个意思合适的单词填入句子的空格处。   ’______sleeve.  tricksforyourtricksinhistricksuphistricksupyour  ______.I’msorry,wejustdon’tshareanyinterestsatall.  charmmirrorincommoncommonground  ______strength.  superhumanblessedcommoneffortless  ’vealwaysbeenvery______.Ipreferbeingwithotherpeoplethanonmyown.  likeableconfidenttrustworthysociable  ’______extent,butmostofitisinaccurate.  toyourtosometonotoalarge  答案  1.阅读课文并回答问题。

    JackSchaferbelievesthebestwaytomakefriendsistoshowinterestinotherpeopleandmakethemfeelgoodaboutthemselves,ratherthantalkaboutyourself.    Smiling,tiltingourheads,raisingoureyebrowsquicklyandmirroringthepersonwe’respeakingtocanhelpusbuildrapport,accordingtothereport.    Theauthorindicatesthatsmilingseemslike“commonsense”,inotherwordssomethingeveryoneknowsnaturally,andisthereforenotsurprised.  ‘stupidly’  Foolishly.  :Ourappearanceinfluenceswhatothersthinkofus.  ,  2.请你在不参考课文的情况下完成下列练习。 选择一个意思合适的单词填入句子的空格处。

  ’  ’msorry,wejustdon’tshareanyinterestsatall.    ’  ’,butmostofitisinaccurate.。